your terms define us !

Human beings are said to be social animals .Their existence is based on the level of dependency they share with people in and out of their busy lives. With this the point of one ENJOYING an individual identity has no place in the scene .We are all intricately interlinked while living or SURVIVING in a vast jungle of opportunities ,ambition and expectations .

Each one of us contributing to the fulfillment of the agenda in our very own special way .This network of different roles that we follow or posses takes us ,closer to the heavy word RESPONSIBILITY .RESPONSIBILITY towards the welfare of our kins ,friends or strangely acquaintances ,the society we are a part of and lastly Our position in it .

Now this responsibility that we have or volunteer for gives birth to our very dear 'EXPECTATIONS' .

Expectations from people we are related to ,love or care for or simply admire gives rise to a situation in which one starts seeing his/ her viewpoint as the FINAL WORD that has to be followed or believed in no matter what .

This is not an Utopian theory of mine ,who bases all her conclusions on Observations and which will determine how "WE" will be functioning a few years later. But sadly is the present way of how every single person is led by someone or the other on a path that THEY think is the best for the individual .

Some of us may brand it as Love or Concern ,but discarding one's way of living and being DICTATED to improve our ongoing state for our betterment gives NO JUSTIFICATION for one's lifestyle to be looked down upon everytime .

As we grow we are told to learn from daily experiences and preserve the lessons that we have learnt from them until life wants us to use them again .

During our initial years we are trained in a way to lead a very SYSTEMATIC life ,which subconsciously gets violated as one grows up .Certain regulations are undoubtedly essential but not to an extent that one starts feeling suffocated and starts doubting his/her own choices .

Now this doubt on one's OWN capability and decisiveness can lead  a person to DEPEND on somebody else or his terms to define things in his life !

NOW THE QUESTIONS ARISES ,ARE HUMANS REALLY LIVING THEIR "OWN LIFE" or WERE THEY BORN WITH INSTINCTS THAT ENCOURAGE THEM TO DEFINE TERMS FOR OTHERS .