There are certain emotions ,feelings and words which have their universal usage and it's their very presence in thi world which helps in binding two souls ,two mates and rather two human beings into a bond that "LASTS FOREVER" ,which is eternal . So what is that makes one's life ? What is it that completes the little gap between two admirers and helps them build their own fantasy world ? What is it that gives a destination to one's dreams ? IS IT THE FOUR LETTER MAGIC SPELL - whose existence in one's life can simply change autumn into spring ??
Yes I AM TALKING ABOUT "LOVE" ,and the complexity behind this mystical word encouraged me to venture and find out what it means - afterall for one it can be JUST SOMETHING and for the other it can be JUST EVERYTHING .
To start with I gathered the guts to ask my really close libran friend who found herself in love with a handsome scorpion boy ,and what she told me about how she felt was amazing as an answer : She blushed looked at her fair pretty feet and replied "LOVE IS NOT SOMETHING TO BE SAID,ONE DOSEN'T GET A NOTIFICATION OF ONE BEING IN IT OR NOT IT JUST HAPPENS" ,she also added that she always wished to talk to him,thought about him ,no matter what she thought or talked .And to add the cherry to the cake she said that even at times when he was nasty ,she didn't feel like breaking all threads and boarding her own bus instead felt like stitching that torn piece of understanding into a much more stronger emotion.
Also ,18 years of successful marriage of my parents instigated me to question my mother over this delicate issue and what I recieved was the world's most innocent reply , she gave me a smile and answered that to her love was UNDERSTANDING ,she said that the person you feel the most SECURE with is the one you love .To elaborate she proudly stated that the most important component in love is to stand by the person who you claim to be in love through thick and thin and all highs and lows .You need to be his biggest support .
To boost my knowledge about this strange yet the world's most beautiful feeling my best friend commeneted that love is NOTHING ! IT'S JUST EVERYTHING BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MOM ,that seemed pretty plain but indeed is very interesting and thoughtful .
My guide at all times added that love is a DIVINE SELFLESS EMOTION WHICH HAS VARIOUS PAGES AND EXPRESSIONS ATTACHED TO IT LIKE CARE ,INSECURITY AND MAYBE JEALOUSY.But the main quality of it is "SACRIFISE FOR THE ONE YOU STRONGLY FEEL FOR ,WITHOUT EVEN THINKING ONCE".
She said it's NOT SELFISH and formost NEVER DIES at any situation .
SO WHAT IS LOVE ? IS IT A FEELING WHERE TRUST IS LOUDER THAT PROMISES ,WHERE UNDERSTANDING IS LOUDER THAN WORDS ,WHERE THE VERY EXISTENCE OF IT IS PROMINENT THAN EXPRESSION,or WHERE TEARS ARE LOUDER THAN SMILES,
I STILL DON'T KNOW .
But from all the suggestions and heartfelt replies -
IT'S ONE EMOTION THAT CAN MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU ....
NOW,FROM WHAT I COULD FIGURE OUT : TRUE LOVE ALWAYS MAKES YOU BETTER WITH TIME ..!