Friday, February 25, 2011

Metamorphosis .

We all enter and exit various ponds and pools throughout our lives . It might just be like a bird migrating from her homeland to a far away foreign estate as soon as the suitable season was over and all the benefits that she was availing till then came to a halt.
The inevitable necessity of life is CHANGE. It's something that is bound to take place irrespective of what our fate has planned for us ,and it rather is the very word that rules our stars.It is humanly impossible if we don't change.
We as humans don't adapt to change easily ,we simply refuse to adjust as we all have a habit of digging into reasons concerning the WHAT & WHY of various situations.
We fail to see ourselves transforming ,we can't see our fellow mates maturing ,it irks us to see our surroundings and groups growing and we prefer stagnating ourselves and the running time,once the realisation of all of this takes place. We wish to put everything to a standstill the moment we realise that things wouldn't be the way they have always been and it's then when one wishes to discard the very factor which is responsible for the interesting nature of a person i.e : CHANGE from their life story. We humans are a bunch of emotions and which emotion acts when is something totally unpredictable .How often do we get to hear that we have changed and are not the same as we previously were ??
Believe you me as far as I've observed it's not that one changes it's the external factors and pressures that change , and one just learns to live with them. And this adjustment in the outlook of a preson causes a change in his known self .
We all need personal space as we all have opinions and posses view points which could be good ,bad,wrong or right and to figure out what we truly want, we have to enter our shell and provide ourselves a room for introspection. We have to connect to our conscience to accept the transformation within us . Unexpected people would complain about you going silent or living in your own world ,some would even brand you as a selfish pig ,but let that happen because when you would be ready to turn into a beautiful butterfly from a mere larva you would know the amount of GENUINE and TRUE friends you made during the entire course of time spent with them .The filtered out friends from the mesh of circumstances during the entire period of your metamorphosis would be the ones who would stay by your side your entire life.It's all about growing with people we love and care for,coming down or going up to their level to understand and support them.
Life brings us to a juncture from where we all have to choose from what we have always dreamt off or what others want to see us as?? And it's at points like these where the solitude and understanding of oneself helps .
At the end we all are broke in this world as I say when we die we are not even entitled to carry our own body along with us to enjoy heaven or burn in the fires of hell .


  1. Let me just say, which a very wise person has said: Nothing is as constant as change!

  2. thank you :)
    what u quoted is soo true ?
    were are u from ?? :)

  3. Hello Kudrat,
    You are so young and still write so well.

    Most important work metamorphosis was by Franz Kafka.It has been studied and studied.Playright Albee in our short Visit with him mentioned Kafka and His views.I can not remember the exact context.If you Get a chance check Metamorphosis out.

    Please use tags on your blog so you can identify your writing by topics.

    Suggested tags for this blog could be Metamorphosis,change,life,thoughts,

  4. Hi, Thanks for visting my blog. Sorry couldnt write to you earlier, kid was with viral, and was packing my husband off to the border.
    Am in good old India somewhere in J&K, husbands in the army.
    Looking forward for your next piece!
    Take care!