How often do we get to hear words which were once classified as MAGIC ONES and marked the beginning of our courteous being in the fast 21st century ?
Unfortunately, these words have become a RARE symphony to be heard .
These are generally discarded as mere FORMALITIES which are thought of as unwanted GIRLY dialogues to be uttered by anyone of us .
But if I go deep and analyse ,I observe that at times simply their usage can determine the start or the end of any relationship. I mean HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ??? If someone right away ordered you, taking help of his dominating tone rather than using the word PLEASE to add a milder touch . Imagine ,If you helped someone and did it whole heartedlly and did not recieve a THANK YOU ,maybe the maximum that you wanted and were expecting because as humans we have a tendency to carry expectations .
Or how about somebody managed to hurt you and did not BOTHER to apologise ?? Whereas you were in all mood to settle things out .
Personally, I would feel LOW for not adhereing to any of what I deduced from real life situations.
So here I have a reason for each of these three words ,to convince you about their role in relationships .
I am their spokesperson for tonight and would try and revive their effect in the world we live in today ..
When somebody is good to you NEVER hesitate to THANK them ,you are not doing it because the person who helped you deserved it but you own the responisibility to make him realise that YOU AWCKNOWLEDGE HIS HELP AND THAT YOU ARE GRATEFUL TO HIM ..
Its all about making someone SMILE or being a reason for their happiness and making them feel special .
Do not erase the extreme value of the CLiched word SORRY .. use it very decisively and generously when required ..
And lastly ,Just remember NONE OF US WOULD WANT TO BE ORDERED ...!!